Puzzle Pieces

I have moved. Well, technically, I'm looking to move, I have a temporary (amazing!) home that I will be staying in until I can find a more permanent-ish one. The "ish" because no matter what, my sights are continually set on my goal of going to Romania yet again... and possibly not coming back. We all know this. This is not news. What IS news, is that I got a job working as a full-time nanny for a wonderful family in...wait for it...Seattle! What is truly exciting about this is, since the beginning of the year, I have been drawn to get involved in ending human trafficking. Seattle is actually one of the top cities in the country for human trafficking. Interesting how God works in that way. I am super excited to start making connections now that I am located here, and already have!

Here are some links from organizations in the Seattle area helping to prevent human trafficking:

Mars Hill Downtown Campus is hosting a town meeting to raise awareness Oct 19th.
 
New Horizons ministry reaches out to the girls on the streets.

YouthCare provides shelter for homeless youth.

And in the New York area: GEMS

Great resources and ideas on ways to help prevent and raise awareness for human trafficking.

I call these just pieces to the puzzle of my calling here in Seattle... who knows what other connections will come my way!

I left my heart in Romania

Imagine you sponsor a little girl somewhere overseas, and you get to spend three weeks with her, and she was calling you "mother" within days, and never wanted to leave your side. Imagine four amazing, beautiful, sweet teenage girls taking you shopping and swimming, and showing you around a wonderful city in which after seeing it was love at first sight. Imagine the sweetest teenage boys you've ever known whose mother abandoned them, and whose father they barely speak to, begging and literally praying that you wouldn't have to leave. Imagine spending two days with a woman who has been through and seen more than anyone I've ever known, yet is still so loving, caring and generous. Now imagine having to leave all of that, and come back to the stress of finding a job in a terrible economy, and having to find a new place to live within a month.

It hasn't been easy.

And through it all, all I know to do is to focus on Him. No matter what comes up, that is all the direction I'm getting. There is a certain peace that "passes all understanding" that certainly comes and goes, but I am amazed at how I've been handling things. Something I've realized is, if I'm never in need, I wouldn't ever need God. And if I didn't go through challenges, I wouldn't have the opportunity to live out my faith. You know that cliche saying, "everything happens for a reason"? I believe it. And I'm not going to worry, because worry is a lack of trust in God. I know I will go back someday, and see all my beautiful friends and now family that I have there. Until them, they are in my heart and in my prayers every day. 

Wrapping it up

  My last few days in Romania were spent at Casa Otniel, an orphanage outside of Timisoara. I had great conversations with Patricia, the "house mom" for the summertime. I wanted to spend a longer amount of time in Romania to experience the life and culture more, and I got a bigger glimpse of that just through my conversations with her. She told me some crazy stories about some very traumatic things that happened to her, including witnessing a baby being stolen! And for them, it's life. It's not normal, but it happens. We take our freedom and rights for granted here, not understanding how hard our fathers before us had to work to get it that way. I had a couple of people tell me they notice Americans smile a lot. Being under oppression for so long, Romanians had nothing to smile about, and even still the life is hard for some. The older kids I asked what they wanted to do after they leave the orphanage, most all of them said they want to "find a job, make money." There are little opportunities for them, and if they do get the chance to go to college, it's not gonna help them find a better job. So many I talked to wanted to move out of the country. Go to Ireland, France, Spain, and "find work," and were shocked when I told them I wanted to live in Romania some day. "Stay in America, it's better for you." They couldn't believe that going to Romania was a dream of mine, when coming to America is such an unattainable one for most of them.

  Life is sometimes hard there, yes. But I also witnessed joy, compassion, and generosity, and I know those who are obedient to the Lord's voice are richly blessed with the things that matter.

Casa Dorca

  Casa Dorca is an orphanage in Prilipet, a village about an hour away from Resita. I got to spend time with my "adopted" brothers there. From my time there last year, I was instantly drawn to these amazing kids. They show such a pure integrity and compassion of heart that I know comes through a genuine relationship with God. I instantly felt at home with them, and fell in love with them all over again. There are mostly all pre-teen to teenagers at Casa Dorca, and though they occasionally get in fights like any normal family would, you can tell they truly care about one another. I was very impressed by how the older boys treated the younger children. They are excellent role models, and I am so proud of them! I was so blessed to spend the whole week with them... I already miss them though. It was very hard to leave!

  After a week with them, I accompanied them to their camp for just one day. As the day went on, I felt like God was speaking to me about a spirit of depression and loneliness among some of the kids in the camp. After conversations I had, and observations I made, I felt like I should speak with Charlie, the leader of the camp, about it. We prayed together, and then later that night he had me share with the whole group what was on my heart. I also sang a song and played the piano after much coaxing from the kids.

  Charlie had mentioned to me before that when people come to visit the orphanages, and then don't come back, it's almost like the children are being abandoned all over again. I hope that even though I don't live with them permanently, that I will have made even a small difference in their life, and that the fact that I came back a second time to see them means I truly care about them.

Not your ordinary trip to Costco

  My week in Timisoara was almost like a vacation... we walked around the center, went shopping (still haven't find those perfect white shoes to go with that summer dress I bought), went swimming, and just umm... relaxed a lot. It's so against my nature to feel unproductive. I can't do it. I think I might be addicted to busy-ness... is that a real thing?? I think so. Especially for Americans. But I think it's funny that I came here for ministry purposes, and God decides to give me a rest. I know He did a lot in my heart during that time, but at the time it was quite frustrating. The last day I was there however, I met a group of people from Germany who come every year and buy groceries and supplies for Casa Sperantie and Casa Otniel, and I was able to help them out with that. Growing up in a family of 6, my mom went to Costco once a month and stocked up. This trip to a Romanian-esque Costco was nothing like that! At one point, I found myself pushing a cart full of frozen chickens. I was very amused by the looks I got. I just kept laughing to myself.. which probably made me look even more crazy. 

  At Casa Otniel, it was such a joy to watch the children unload the goods, and see the looks on their faces at all the food they knew was for them! Even though I only had a small part in helping out, it was a tremendous feeling to be apart of that. It made it all worth it.

Saying Goodbye

I am a little behind on blogging, but I will try to catch you up...

  It seems like so long ago now, but it's only been a week since I left the Emmaus kids behind in Bogata. I look at their pictures way too often, and feel like they are so far away, even though it's only a 6-hr (less than pleasant) train ride away, whereas when I go home it will be..... much further than that! I pretty much miss them all, but the Tamas family sticks out in my mind....

  Anna with her beautiful features and maturity that goes beyond her 12 years...Lati (pronounced lot-SEE) is a kind of a shepherd to the younger ones, Eszther says. He seems very genuine, and different from the older boys who try to act "cool"... and Katalin (Kati) is so full of love, and God bless her but she would always try to talk to me in Hungarian and I couldn't understand a word! Misi (MEE-she) has grown up so much, I can tell he is more mature, and even though he still picks on the younger children a lot, I know he has a good heart and wants to do good. He was answering a lot of Bible questions, and I am encouraged by his spiritual insight. Erszi I called her "my baby girl." Spending 3 weeks with her, I often wondered what her deep eyes have seen, and what goes on inside that little head of hers. I loved it when she smiled at me, her smile was so precious. Anti was my favorite (besides Bernie of course!) I was so happy to see him smile and laugh and even joke around with me... last year his eyes and face showed no emotion. All the older boys loved him a lot and it was good to see he is being taken very good care of! Bernadette is hilarious. She was always falling tripping, falling out of cars, she would fall when she was sitting on my lap! She was a ball of energy and totally and completely-- I don't even have the word! I love her little giggle, and when she spoke - even if it wasn't that often - and when I would hold her hand while we were walking somewhere and every 10 seconds she would lag behind and I would have to tug at her arm because she got distracted by something on the street. I loved when I would come into her room every night to say goodnight, we would snuggle and she called me "anya" ("mother" in Hungarian). There are so many other things I loved about her...

  When I was saying goodbye to them, they were hugging and kissing me and telling me not to cry... which of course made me cry even more! I know better than to make promises, but I know in my heart I will see them again. And I will continue to pray for them, and little Ilona who will join them at Emmaus in September!

Thank you Jesus

This week we are in Praid (or Prajd), in the salt mines. I am amazed that Romanians would pay 40 lei (which equals about $12 which is nothing for us, but 40 lei on their income is a lot) for an indoor playground and exercise program, which is basically just stretching for one hour. I thought it would be more of a tourist attraction or museum of some sort, but no. Lots of swings, see-saw's, ping-pong tables and open spaces to play. And big bouncy toys and mazes, but for pay! It's kinda funny.

I have learned a lot about myself, the Lord, and a little bit of Hungarian! I am going to have to start making a list of every time I say "thank you, Jesus" for the littlest things...

This morning, I woke up later on purpose, so I could shower while the children were eating breakfast. One bathroom for 27 kids! You think sharing with your roommate or family is hard?? Try that. I came out of my room - another "thank you Jesus" moment, I was provided my own room! - and Eszter asks me if I would like to use her shower in her room. That little thing made my day! It was nice and clean, as opposed to the children's, as you can imagine. I just love how God shows me He is looking out for me, and cares about the littlest things.

It's going to be hard to leave these kids, I will have been with them basically non-stop for 3 weeks when I leave on Monday, but I am excited to see my friends in Timisoara. They speak good English, which it is a shame that none of the children speak good enough English to have in-depth conversations. I want to know their struggles and how to pray for them, and encourage them. I will let my prayers be enough, and pray for the spiritual mothers and fathers who will and are walking alongside them.

Another "thank you Jesus" moment: thank you Jesus for giving me a place to hideaway from the children and write and upload pics without little faces crowding me. Amen.

Until next time I have Internet, szia (pronounced: SEE-ya... pretty easy to remember!)

Reflections/funeral/Ilona

The vacation Bible school camp the LCC group put together. First of all, I was very impressed by them. Such a great group of (mostly women!) who have such big hearts and a love and passion for Jesus. I was very blessed for that to be my first week here. They were a big encouragement.

I am also very encouraged by a couple of the children who I remember from last year to be... somewhat difficult. Those were the ones who were excitedly answering Bible questions, and just the sweetest kids ever! I know that God has a special grace for me to be in this place, because feelings of discouragement from last year are being replaced with hope!

Some bad news, but also good in some way, is that Bernadette's grandmother passed away. The good part of that is that I am grateful to be here for her during this time, even if she may not understand completely what is going on. I hope that she will have memories of happiness with me while all this is going on.Her siblings loved her dearly and also seemed to be the one taking the most care of them during their home visits, so I am afraid for what may happen to them in the home when they go back to visit their family on holidays. I entrust them to God, and pray... that is all I can do.

The good news is that my little girl Ilona, Bernie's sister, will be in the orphanage in September! I have been praying for this little girl for over a year now, and the other day saw her smiling and laughing and playing with me! I am so thankful that God has kept her safe for this long, and even more excited that she will find a home at Emmaus with her siblings!

First Week

So almost a week in Romania! VBS has been going great. I am really impressed with the LCC (Lighthouse Christian Church) who put it all together. I have had many memories of my vacation Bible school experiences. These kids are having lots of fun and learning about God at the same time! We've had some really special times with the kids, and I already feel attached. It will be hard to leave eventually, but I know God will give me the grace to do it.


Bernadette (Bernny, as they call her) is pretty much attached to my hip, and it's hard to even go to the bathroom without her wanting to follow me! Her little brother, Antal (Anti) is such a cutie! It's so good to see him smile and laugh and play, since the last time I saw him, he was living with his parents and he barely acknowledged our presence and cameras. I hope I can get pictures uploaded soon, they are both adorable and I am so happy and priviledged to be with them here.

There is so much already that I can share, but one important thing I would like prayer for is health. A couple of people from our team have gotten really sick. I haven't been feeling 100%, but nothing serious. Just pray that I will be kept healthy throughout my stay. They all leave on Saturday (Friday night for my friends in America), and I stay on. I am in His hands, and He is in control. That is what I am sure of.

Something cool God showed me today - I had been praying for physical and mental healing for some of the children, and as I was doing my devotions today, and going over my notes that my wonderful friends had written for me, I noticed that anytime healing was mentioned, it was synonomous with love. "God's healing through LOVE." I realized that love is a powerful thing, especially when we are portraying God's love. I know that healing is not about me, it's about the children, and if God wants to heal them physically, I am open to however He wants to use me in that regards. But what He is calling me to do right now, is to LOVE them - even if they are laughing and goofing off in the bathroom at 11 o'clock at night when we are trying to sleep! And through that, God will do the rest.

I'm praising God that I am able to write you all! I feel like it's been weeks since I left, so much has happened! I think when I get back to the Emmaus Home, my schedule will be more structured. Then again, plans change constantly and oftentimes I find out what I will be doing the day before... or 5 minutes before! I have to remember we're on "Romania time" it's different than American, and clocks are almost obsolete - I'm not kidding!

Much love from Chariti (and Bernny)

I'm here!

Well, I made it to Romania safe and sound... what an adventure! From the taxi drive who spoke no English to walking around the city looking for a decent place to eat, I finally made it. Last night was my first night staying at the Emmaus Home. I have my own room with an extra bed, so I wonder if Bernadette will be sneaking in sometimes to sleep with me! Some of the boys made me braceletes out of yarn. I feel accepted already! Today we go to pick up the rest of the children from visiting their families. I get to see Bernadette, or Berny as they call her, and her other siblings. The team from Chucks church is amazing. I am so blessed to be surrounded by such wonderful people in my first week.



I am trying to learn Hungarian, but oh my gosh... its not easy. Lets just leave it at that.

Living in the orphanage, I know I will be seeing a lot. My prayer request would be that I would be discerning enough to know what is a legitimate need, and what is simply a luxury. Shower curtains, for example may be nice and something I take for granted, but they dont seem to care. Soap and toilet paper however, are much more of a necessity. Thank you Jesus for putting it on my mind to bring my own!! I know I could be staying at a hotel, or even sleeping on Eszthers couch, but I would not have it any other way. I will be living just a few short weeks what they have lived almost every day of their lives, and I am priviledged to see just a glimpse into their lives.

Vacation Bible school camp starts Tuesday! Pray that the childrens hearts are open to Jesus during this time.

Love from Romania and Emmaus,

Chariti

Bigger Than Me

  I've known since I was a teenager that I would always be apart of something great. My name would never be known - which is completely OK with me! - but a movement, or force, or whatever you want to call it, would be in motion and I would have a big part in that movement. I've known since I was a little girl that I have a DESTINY and an incredible calling on my life. (BTW, everyone has an incredible calling on their life, and if you are feeling like you don't, or are feeling worthless, then you are being LIED to!) Something bigger than me. God has been revealing more and more to me that it's really all about Him - that I am just a willing vessel. I've always been a bit overwhelmed with all of that... I mean, I'm just one little person, how can all this come from me? From a "yes"? But it's very evident that God has had a plan for my life from the get-go (Jer. 29:11)

  A group of close friends came together to pray specifically for me and this trip, and a reocurring theme was that God was going to bring healing through me. It was a confirmation of something that had been stirring in my heart already, and it was so exciting to hear again and again the word "healing" come out through others' prayers. God has revealed to me specific faces of children that are under the influence of dark spiritual forces, who He wants to deliver from that. The orphanage that I will be going to has a lot of children with mental & physical disabilities, and I believe that God wants to pour out His healing on that place! And again - it's so not about me, but what He wants to do through me. He's had a heart for these kids before they were even in existence... before even the world was in existence! And it just amazes me that He wants me to be apart of this. Apart of their destiny.

With a simple "yes"

  I haven't written in a while because I have been left speechless.

  Just looking at the pictures of the kids from last year's trip makes my heart skip a beat. I am going to be with them for 5 weeks!!!!! That is a long enough time to establish relationship, and certainly enough time for me to get attached and not want to come back. That is a given, but to say that I am prepared for that is a stretch.

  I am speechless because I am so amazed at what God can accomplish with a simple "yes". From the day I said "yes" to God, my life has changed and I have had the amazing opportunity to touch other people's lives. God desires to encounter us and for us in turn to show others His love and mercy. What a priviledge to be a messenger of that love. And not only that, but to see people's lives change right before your eyes - I love that! I have faith that miracles WILL happen there. Not so that I can be looked at as some super spiritual person, but because I KNOW that God wants to do it! All because I live my life saying YES to Jesus. Whatever it is, yes I will do it!

  I am prepared for God to stretch me. I am also prepared for Him to change me. It always happens when I set out to serve someone, I always get blown away by how much I get blessed. I want to see people set free, healed, and touched by the love of Jesus. I want Him to change me from the inside out. Even more than He already has.

  Would you please join me in prayer that God will soften the hearts of people enough for them to let Him touch them? Will you pray that they will say "yes" to the move of God. Would you ask Him to till the soil so that it will be ready for the Holy Spirit to come in and grow the seeds I will plant!

It's Official!

  Plane ticket to Romania is BOUGHT. I am officially going! Trip is from the middle of June until end of July! I will be working with the Emmaus Home in Bogata, which is in the northern part of Romania. Where they, might I add, speak Hungarian which is completely different from Romanian! I would rather stick to Romanian because I am actually able to read Romanian (that's half-way there to being fluent right??).... but hopefully I'll pick up a lot while I'm there!

  To be honest, I'm still so apprehensive about the whole thing. I will not have a phone and probably very minimal Internet use. I don't like being out of touch with family and close friends. They are what ground me. Another thing is this is the exact orphanage that was at the very bottom of my list to go back to! The need there was very overwhelming and I left very heavy-hearted for the children there and felt like we didn't make a difference. Of course that is a lie from the enemy. And I know that I am making a difference in Bernadette's life by sponsoring her, praying for her, and writing her. It's gonna take a lot of Jesus and His strength to sustain and encourage me. I feel like I took a big step of faith by even considering going back (although that was a given!) and am taking an even bigger one by actually doing it!

  When I found out for sure that this would actually happen, I was thanking God, but even before I could finish the thought, I felt Him say, "No thank YOU - I had the money lined up all along. You were just willing." There is so much need in the world! And let my life be a personal testimony to you, that money or time should never hinder you from your calling. If the Lord is calling you to do something that you're passionate about, He will accomplish it - if you are willing! The "harvest is plentiful but the workers are few." - Matt. 9:37

Kidstown Charity Auction

I am excited to help put together a charity auction for Kidstown! Please consider this your official invitation! While we have been given many generous donations, including sports/event tickets, salon/spa features, restaurant gift certificates, X-boxes, music lessons, free nights at hotels, we still need more donations! Anything you could contribute would be great, or any ideas you have from attending other auctions. If you've been reading my blog, you know what a great organization Kidstown is. But beyond all of that, my heart is to touch the orphans in some way. We all have spheres of influence and connections, and even if you personally don't have items to donate, be thinking about people you know who do, and who would love to donate to a wonderful and legitimate cause.

You can contact me directly at chariti.smith@yahoo.com

Wine Tasting Kidstown Charity Auction

A Love for the Lost

So while I was in Romania, I found it very easy to love the children who had been abandoned, some beaten, some physically and mentally disabled, some not so cute! I loved them all. It was easy. However, visiting some of the parents of these precious children, I found it very difficult to feel the same love for them. And then I realized Jesus loves the orphans just as much as he loves the parents who abandoned or even abused them. Then I wondered how could He! It was very difficult for me to love them through my exreme anger for them. The Jesus that hung on the cross for those children was the same Jesus that hung on the cross for their parents who left them. In the same way, Jesus died for the victims of rape, abuse, hate crimes, theft, and countless other crimes as well as their perpetrators. Who is like this God?!? I started asking God to show me how HE sees these people. All I saw was evil. I couldn't understand. And I can't even explain it now... it's one of those mysteries that God works in your heart that while it's happening you don't realize until it's all over and you think "Wow, my heart has completely changed in this area!" It could only be God, but my heart has changed towards the parents. I have forgiven them. Even if their children never will, I have begun to see them as God sees them - blinded, chained, lost. They need as much help as their children do.